comedy psychology Posted Wed Aug 9 16:04:06 BST 2000 by kinder surprise

I think what drives a lot of people to comedy is a feeling of being unloved. They are seeking the love and acceptance in laughter. I think how good a comedian is depends on a correlative factor of how much he/she was ever loved. The less they were loved, quite often the better they are, and the more, well the laughter seeking just becomes greedy and sinister and produces poor quality efforts of attining it. One would muster a guess Dave Gorman has quite the tight-knit family.

What does anyone think to my theory?


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Posted By Gee on Wed Aug 9 23:46:27 BST 2000:

You could be right kinder surprise. Sounds plausible.


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Posted By Sam D on Thu Aug 10 09:03:24 BST 2000:

I agree with the theory up to the point. I certainly find that on a personal level, I find that the 'likeability' of a comedian can affect how funny I find them.

Taking it as fact that comedy is in the main subjective, I understand that what I am going to say certainly does not apply to everyone, and my intention is not to get anyone's back up.

The people who I find really funny are in the main quite likeable characters (Bill Bailey, Harry Hill, Graham Fellows, Lee and Herring, Laurel and Hardy and so on). It is not because I like them that I find them funny, I simply find it more pleasant to watch them for longer because of this (but then who said comedy should be pleasant.. the League of Gentlemen are excellent). Perhaps this is a very lazy approach from me, as there are comedians who I will accept are very funny (eg Jasper Carrot) but, as I don't particularly like his 'on-stage' persona I don't devote as much time to watching them. Actually I'm really not making the point I wanted to make at all well, and am coming across as some complete arse who wants all comedians to be pleasant and inoffensive, which is not what I want at all. The grumpy, dislikeable act can work very well. Its just that from a personal point of view, if I was doing stand up I would want to be liked. Perhaps someone with more confidence (or a funnier person) wouldn't have this pre-requisite.

I'm going to give up now, as its far too early in the morning and this has simply become a self-contradicting, unreasoned point(less). I apologise for wasting anyone's time. Arse. At least I neither like Iain Lee nor find him funny, so thats one dilemma out of the way.


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Posted By Gee on Thu Aug 10 10:36:49 BST 2000:

I've always said: "If you can't say something good about someone, then they're usually a bastard."


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Posted By Peter Ohanraohanrahan on Thu Aug 10 21:04:16 BST 2000:

It's the funny bits you find yourself laughing at, though, isn't it? Generally.


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Posted By Jon on Fri Aug 11 09:12:54 BST 2000:

I dunno. Mel&Sue have never made me laugh, although they seem very likeable. Jerry Sadowitz absolutely kills me with his stuff.


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Posted By Sam D on Fri Aug 11 09:54:24 BST 2000:

>I dunno. Mel&Sue have never made me laugh, although they seem very likeable. Jerry Sadowitz absolutely kills me with his stuff.

True. Even I don't agree with what I was trying to say. I just like liking people. I'm a naive little fellah.


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Posted By Jon on Fri Aug 11 12:08:09 BST 2000:

Call me stupid, but I cannot hate someone wearing a bowtie.

Once they take it off, it becomes a different matter...


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Posted By kinder surprise on Fri Aug 11 13:39:28 BST 2000:

Hmm you really have been brought up with high standards.


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Posted By Sam D on Fri Aug 11 14:05:47 BST 2000:

>Call me stupid, but I cannot hate someone wearing a bowtie.
>
>Once they take it off, it becomes a different matter...

I hate the Chippendales, and they virtually only wear bow-ties.

I only hate them, because I have a similar physique, and I think it cheapens my body. No, really.


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Posted By kinder surprise on Fri Aug 11 14:47:38 BST 2000:

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

That was hilarious Sam. The Chipandales!! I'll need to get in the recovery position thanks to you.


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Posted By Sam D on Fri Aug 11 15:08:56 BST 2000:


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>That was hilarious Sam. The Chipandales!! I'll need to get in the recovery position thanks to you.

I'm not very good at spotting sacarsm, so I'll look smug.


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Posted By kinder surprise on Fri Aug 11 15:13:28 BST 2000:

No sarcasm intended Sam. That was genius.


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Posted By Peter Ohanraohanrahan on Fri Aug 11 20:12:22 BST 2000:

>Jerry Sadowitz absolutely kills me with his
>stuff.

His poison?


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Posted By Jon on Sat Aug 12 14:43:03 BST 2000:

No - his magic powers, stupid.

He does strange things with cards, didn't you know?


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